Just today, I learned a new and one of the most important lessons of my life. I have experienced this over the years and today it hit me while I was walking on the road going back to my rented room after purchasing some stuff. I saw people talking, laughing, some sad, some poor, some beggars, some rich persons, some with tensions stretched across their faces, some with love in their shining eyes, some with “drilling a scheme” in their eyes, some with “Fuck You” on their face.. many many different types of humans if you watch simply enough everyone in your daily routine.
I learned the lesson that the facial beauty or the ugliness, that the superficial shapes and curves of human body , in reality are superficial. There is something that lies deeper inside, that deeper thing shows itself in the form of habits and behaviors in a person and no matter how much you try, you can never change a man. Every man has one fundamental form of his behavior which he never changes throughout his life. Put an honest and patriotic man in a company of corrupted politicians and businessmen and when you will remove him from there after 10 years into the normal life, he will basically remain the same. Some habits of him may have changed over time and the basic traits of his thinking will remains same, like if no one ever touched them over last 10 years. Almost all men fall for the beauty of a woman. I am a man and I guarantee you about this typical habits of men. A man can fall for a woman who is much more beautiful and glamorous than his own wife and he will cheat on her wife for that. The experience of life had taught me enough to believe this. Men fall for beauty and glamor. I, basically form experience, have no longer any desire for the beauty. When your life your life as a man responsible for his family and his society, what you see is deeper than that beautiful face , you see how that woman is going to live with you, how she is going to affect your life (in positive or negative way), what type of communications she has towards persons she lives, what she thinks of some people and why she does not think some good or bad about others. Just typical characteristics of human behavior. What you see on the face and the sexy figure is a deceiving phenomenon. The Truth of the Beauty lies in the relationship with that woman. What life you are going to live with her. As a married man you will fed up in sex with a beautiful and sexy wife just after 2 years if she does not give a suitable life and growth to your kids( our kids ?). You will fed of your moments on bed with a sexy shape you own when you will see your life is imbalanced . Why don’t men see that 2 years ago ? Why do they have to fall for beauty and sex ?
Now women will say I am criticizing them by my own biased opinions. No its not true, so lets come to the side of general viewpoint, applied to all humans. Same way the woman works in last paragraph, the general friendship works, in case of relationships. Your relatives, your friends and your parents are bound by their natural instincts which is mostly same in all species: Being Selfish. Few are good by nature and thats what I will call Natural Evolution. If your friend, or your business partner or your husband, has some habits and characteristics which are not well fit in a family and kid-raising environment, your marriage will perish. Most Indians believe, that the culture of white people (by white people, most Indians refer to native people of USA and UK) is of sex and hence divorce. My countrymen, very proudly have convictions that white-people are not family people, that they are superior except when comes to family life. They think they divorce because of they are full of sex. I can see many whites will not like this picture of theirs but thats what a typical Indian thinks about them. Indians think that our family lives are better as divorce rates are way-way less. My fellow countrymen do not want to see the truth that its not about sex or family life, thats its about human rights. You can not hit your woman in USA, well, in India you can punch her in the stomach while she is 6 months pregnant and law gives a shit about it. The human rights are worse (but better as compared to China). Any Indian husband can beat his wife like a dog, while he is drunk and people will come to rescue both of them, man from his liquor and woman from the wounds and then they will say “ok, ok, its all ok, after all you are husband and wife. Forget the anger now and live like a family. After all you have to live together for all of your life” The Americans divorce because if man beats a woman while she is pregnant, he is doomed. Any teacher in India can beat his students with sticks only to express his anger and no one will say anything because law have no rules like a teacher can not slap or beat his students. Its about human rights, its not about cultures or race or color that most Indians wrongly believe.
Human species, just like other species (like Dogs, Whales, Ants, Giraffe and other animals) are selfish by their very nature. If you watch closely a dog sleeping, watch how he breathing, watch how his chest goes up and down, it is exactly like your mother breathes, watch how he gets alerted when you make a little noise. Watch a dog how he stretches his body when he wakes up, it is exactly like you did when you woke up today. Watch how a cat looks at you while you are looking at her. Watch how a cow behaves with you when you touch her, watch her reaction when you try to hit her child and then people think we are the center of the creation of this universe. People think we are not species, we are humans and better than all. What the stupidity. Earth is only a very tiny part of the Milky Way Galaxy and this galaxy has millions of stars like Earth. And there are more than a billion galaxies in this universe. How come you say that earth has only the living system ? How can you say that stones exist only in your backyard, that they don’t exist on Mars or a planet which is billions and billions and billions and billions and billions of miles away from you and no one has seen that planet. Since no one has seen that planet, so it must not exist . Right ?
IF you watch animals e.g. Lions, Deers, Parrots, etc you will see they exist and live primarily only to survive and the way to survive is to be selfish: Eat what you get and don’t share with others. Forget about fellow lions, I will eat the killed deer alone and if you mess with me I will tear your ass out you. So when we see on News Channels that George Bush ordering the invasion of Iraq or when we hear or read Hitler killed millions in concentration camps or general Indian police men raping women, then we get angry or surprised. Why ? its ordinary species behavior. The most important point why everyone has to stop breathing one day, or why you stop breathing when put a knife in your heart. We are species. And on a final note, Hitler did not kill millions himself, his army men killed millions and those army men were also in millions. Millions of species killed millions of other species. Why surprise ?
Other species (which we call animals) die and they stop breathing. Humans die and they stop breathing. The difference between a dead deer and an alive man is that man is breathing while deer is not. Why ? . Ever saw a bitch weeping when her child dies ? Ever saw a buffalo getting hurt when you hurt her child ? They speak, they talk, they communicate and when you can’t understand their communication and you tie them in rope you say we are the center of creation of this universe. What the heck ? What kind of logic is this ? The difference between species is only of their shape and the way they breed. So why you think that this tiny star called Earth has life on it ? Why you think there can not be another life , another species which is watching you like you watch the behavior of Lions on Discovery Channel. What make you think that only human species can create warplanes and atom bombs. Since you never saw anyone with different shape than humans creating missiles so there must not be anyone. Did your stupid school teach you this ?
Time to think again
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